There are times in all of our lives where we speak out of
character. In other words we let loose before we let go. In most cases, we
regret harsh words the second they are out, but then it’s too late. We can’t un-speak
or un-hear hurtful thoughts any more than we can un-ring a bell. What we can do
is ask for and give forgiveness. It’s just as hard to ask as it is to give, yet
it is necessary. The words may taste bad at first, but our pallet will adjust.
I had words with a friend and fellow musician many years ago that haunted both
of us until a couple of years ago when we sat across from each other over
coffee and mended that damaged fence. I also lashed out at God for a time after
the passing of my father. Grief can do that to anyone.
People who are under stress of running a business, someone
who is grieving, those who are weathering a health storm or a financial crisis
may lash out without really meaning their words. When they ask for forgiveness,
give it, and if they can’t ask then be the first to offer. Also, if you have
spoken out of character, then ask immediately. I have the utmost confidence
that forgiveness heals all wounds.
Jesus, on the cross, after all of the indignities poured
onto Him never angered at mankind. Yet, He asked God the Father to forgive. In
Luke 23:34 NCV, Jesus said “Father forgive them, because they don’t know what
they are doing.” Surely if Jesus could offer forgiveness to being crucified,
then we must be more than able to ask for and give the same for our petty
disputes. When we forgive, we are given authority and release as in John
20:23NCV. It tells us this. If you forgive anyone his sins, they are forgiven.
If you do not forgive them, they are not forgiven. So you can see through this
scripture that anything can be laid to rest, and release you from being a
hostility hostage. The gift you give will be returned by the Father. Remember
the Lord’s prayer and forgive those who trespass against you. In this we can
all practice the language of the heart.
Mike Shindruk
www.mastershandministry.blogspot.com
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